To love, to be loved. Love does not consist of possession but of freedom. See freedom allows the mind and heart to truly decide what it wants compared to being controlled and not being able to explore a friendship or thought of someone else. Take this as an example, If you are in a room your whole life, there are four walls, a floor, and a ceiling and you are happy in this room at first but sooner or later you will begin to wonder what is outside of these four walls, what’s on top of this ceiling and under this floor? Your mind will wonder so much you will try to escape and find out yourself. Well, this is the same within a relationship, hold a person so close and keep them from being free and they will eventually begin to wonder. I’m not saying you cant respecting your partners’ wishes but there is should be a fine line between protective and possessive, educate yourself before you are can relate so much to this post.
-xoxo Flying away